Marlene Duffy
Wednesday, April 25th, 2007From: “Joan Hansen” hansjoan@alaska.net>
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Subject: Kenai Neighbors Column for April 24, 2007
Date: Thursday, April 19, 2007 1:57 AM
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“When I am an old woman I shall wear purple with a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t suit me..and pick flowers in other people’s gardens, and learn to spit.”
I first read this poem well over 20 years ago and loved it. Written by Jenny Joseph, it encourages us to have more fun in life. In the past few years, a movement has risen up that encourages women to “have fun and friendship after 50″, and it has been named “The Red Hat Society”.
I spoke to the founder and ‘Queen Mom” of our local society last week and got her story.
Marlene Duffy first came to Alaska from California in 1971. She and her husband, John, lived in Anchorage until 1986, when they moved to Barrow. She served as secretary to the administrator of the Indian Health Services Hospital and later worked for the chief of Police, while John was director of housing for the North Slope Borough. They lived there until 1991, retired, and chose to build a house in Kenai and call it ‘home’.
The couple had five children: Mark Boberick lives in Fairbanks, Betsy Peterson in Kenai, Brian Boberick in Littleton, Colorado, and twin girls Debbie Mann who lives in Camarillo, California and Dee Webster, who lives in Brooklyn, New York. There are 26 grandchildren in all, and “four and a half great-grandchildren”, says Marlene. Her husband passed away in 1997.
About four years ago, Marlene was shopping in Arizona and saw the colors red and purple at a booth, liked the combination, and bought the items. He friend said, “Now you can join the Red Hat Society! Marlene looked on the Internet, and found that the closest chapter was in Homer, so she simply organized her own.
Now called the “Kenai Reds, Some Pinks, and We’re Not Salmon”, the local chapter has about 140 members in the area, while the society has grown to nearly a million members world-wide. The sisterhood helps women by giving them someone to attend events with, and often camaraderie is formed. The local group tries to support at least one local event a month. Marlene says, “the beauty of this organization is that it’s ‘totally disorganized’. No meetings, no dues, no minutes, no rules or regulations. You just need to wear a red hat and a purple outfit. If you’re under 50, you can still join, but have to wear pint hats and lavender outfits until you come of age. Just be ready to have fun.”
April 25 marks the birthday of the Red Hat Society and the gals are celebrating with a parade for the third year. It begins at the Kenai Senior Center and will travel to the Kenai Visitor’s Center at 3 p.m. You’re invited to come watch. If you are interested in being part of this jolly group, call Patsy Clifford at 776-5382 or check with Marlene at 283-5319 a little later, after she ducks outside for a little visit before she has her bypass surgery in May.
Happy Birthday today to Molly Musgrove.